What to wear on a date?

I have to reiterate to the world that I have the best friends in all of creation :) They are such a class act every single one of them! Niki, one of my closest, was helping me get ready to go out last night, and I kept running over to her house, where my daughter was spending the night lol I'm sure she wanted me to knock it off so my kid would settle her little butt down. Anyway, I kept going over there to ask if what I was wearing was good. Not like I haven't seen the man before. James and I have seen each other many times before, so there really was no need for the first date butterflies, but I had them anyway. LOL and James and I are just friends.

Finally I found the outfit I felt perfect in, got the thumbs up for Nik and we are saying goodbye and I start singing none other than the oldie but goodie posted above. Of course we start giggling like little teenagers but it was fun! I love my friends, it had been a rough day and not only did Nik had me laughing I was truly smiling and ready to go and give my date my all.

So Date time comes and the man had fallen asleep lol What can a girl do but wish him sweet dreams and go out for a nice drive. And again this is where the truly great friends part comes in 'cause remember James and I are JUST friends. So I get a text at about 1 in the morning saying I'm so so sorry. I'm out and about and tell him its fine but my upset from the day has come back full force so I'm headed somewhere I probably shouldn't have been but of course my intentions were not to make myself more upset, just to internalize.

And I tell him this, and he was like no, you come over here. We texted back and forth a little and finally he was like it will take you 20 minutes to get here. And so it did. All my prep for nothing, I showed up in jeans and a t-shirt with no shoes lol. He says to me why in the hell are you out with no shoes?

And that was that.....All the prep I went through and the man looked at my feet and didn't care what was on the rest of my body!

So for all you women out there scrambling to figure out what you're going to wear when you go out? Ask your partner this....what are you going to look at most...and make sure you prep that area most...forget the rest, lol or at least don't pay it that much attention.